A woman isn’t designed to be alone – debatable 

My Mum would say to me ‘understand that women are not designed to be alone. You need companionship’. These words always fell to deaf ears or maybe they simply went to my subconscious because I would think it’s not necessarily true. 

Well maybe it’s not ideally true since we have outliers, but we also cannot dispute that overtime as a woman grows, she acknowledges and exemplifies the statement presented. 

Now, I’ve come to acknowledge the essence of those words to me. The reason she told me and keeps saying to those who would care to listen. 

She doesn’t say it to force anyone into the wrong hands or person, but for people like me who think that ‘we have it all covered’ to realise that beyond our personal definitions of success, there’s better satisfaction in how we share our joys with our partners/companions. 

My Mum and literally my entire family would be there for me, but there’s a difference in companionship with one. I see it with my parents, I see it with my siblings and their spouses, I see it all around me and I see that soon, it’ll be mine. 

Darling, you need to be your own companion, you need to find companionship with GOD, but you need companionship with another. 

I hope you find that companionship in whatever way you deem best. 

With warm and cuddly smiles, 

HerSplendidThoughts