My Mum would say to me ‘understand that women are not designed to be alone. You need companionship’. These words always fell to deaf ears or maybe they simply went to my subconscious because I would think it’s not necessarily true. Well maybe it’s not ideally true since we have outliers, but we also cannot... Continue Reading →
Focus on the solution, not the problem
Sometimes, focusing on the problem makes it feel bigger than it is. Here’s what I learned. 🤎 On a random weekend, I went to visit my parents. Before leaving, my car was already running on a quarter tank of fuel. I had planned to buy petrol from a specific filling station along the way, so... Continue Reading →
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And so shall it be. Amen
Merry Christmas !!!!
In the last few years, I’ve noticed something about myself: I’m not always as ecstatic about Christmas as those around me. I’ve wondered why this sense of lethargy or complacency shows up. I’m not enthused to decorate, join in all the fun activities or chase the sparkle. What I long for most is rest and... Continue Reading →
The Part of Me I’m Learning to Guide
I love you! There is a part of me that once felt untamed.It rose without warning, spoke without pause,and often left me unsettled. I feared it—not because it was strong,but because it was uncontrolled. So I began the quiet work.Not to erase it,but to understand it.To guide it instead of being guided by it. I... Continue Reading →
Her Splendid Thoughts 