Today, I had a conversation with you in my head—and it went something like this: I want to open up to you.To let go.To be my complete self with you.To be vulnerable—without fearing the unknown, or whether the feeling is mutual.To know I’m in a safe place, without doubts.To believe I’m making progress.To feel certain... Continue Reading →
Don’t Become What You Dislike
Be careful not to inherit the bad traits of your partner. In moments of frustration, resist the urge to mirror their flaws as a form of payback. Instead, be the example—the change you want to see. Growth in a relationship comes not from matching negativity, but from leading with patience, grace, and integrity. It’s easy... Continue Reading →
My troubles, your troubles, our troubles.
You know that feeling when something is really stressing you out, but the next person just can’t relate? It’s frustrating. Over time, I’ve learned that people’s worries vary—even when they stem from the same situation. Sometimes, the impact may be the same, but it hits at different times. I remember when my friend, Mo, and... Continue Reading →
Her Splendid Thoughts 