Someday, I’ll write about the man after my heart. But today, I want to tell you about the man who owns it—my Dad. Ever look at someone and just thank God they’re in your life? That’s how I feel about my family—and my dad is no exception. People often tell me I don’t talk about... Continue Reading →
A moment missed, a lesson gained
One random Tuesday, I decided to stay in bed and focus on myself. No rushing out the door, no obligations—just me and my thoughts. As I scrolled through my photos app, a memory from this exact date years ago popped up. It made me smile. It felt like a good day, and I ended up... Continue Reading →
A random note
Today, I had a conversation with you in my head—and it went something like this: I want to open up to you.To let go.To be my complete self with you.To be vulnerable—without fearing the unknown, or whether the feeling is mutual.To know I’m in a safe place, without doubts.To believe I’m making progress.To feel certain... Continue Reading →
At what point is the attention seeking extreme?
Recently, while driving, I saw a group of boys standing by the roadside, all huddled around a phone. What caught my attention wasn’t the phone or the excitement—it was one boy with a bandaged hand. For a split second, I imagined what it would feel like to have my hand wrapped like his—and I immediately... Continue Reading →
Me before Them
I've often adjusted myself for others. Some may dispute this fact, and I acknowledge their right to do so. I am in a continuous process of learning that sacrificing my own needs doesn't guarantee the permanence of anyone or anything. I repeatedly observe that when I pause and take gradual, meaningful actions, things align. This... Continue Reading →
Don’t Become What You Dislike
Be careful not to inherit the bad traits of your partner. In moments of frustration, resist the urge to mirror their flaws as a form of payback. Instead, be the example—the change you want to see. Growth in a relationship comes not from matching negativity, but from leading with patience, grace, and integrity. It’s easy... Continue Reading →
Her Splendid Thoughts 