My Mum would say to me ‘understand that women are not designed to be alone. You need companionship’. These words always fell to deaf ears or maybe they simply went to my subconscious because I would think it’s not necessarily true. Well maybe it’s not ideally true since we have outliers, but we also cannot... Continue Reading →
Focus on the solution, not the problem
Sometimes, focusing on the problem makes it feel bigger than it is. Here’s what I learned. 🤎 On a random weekend, I went to visit my parents. Before leaving, my car was already running on a quarter tank of fuel. I had planned to buy petrol from a specific filling station along the way, so... Continue Reading →
Silent growth
With sincerity, HerSplendidThoughts
To show or not to show: the face behind
Today, I felt a nudge.A quiet whisper suggesting it might be time to reveal my face to this blog. I’ve thought about it.I’ve wondered if it would change anything.Would the words feel different once they’re paired with a face?Would you see me and this blog differently? I’ve always loved the freedom of writing without being... Continue Reading →
2026
And so shall it be. Amen
My Year of Self
2025 was the year I experienced self differently. In solitude and in busyness.In gratitude and in worry.In peace and in anxiety.In building and in forming.In plenty and in need. I learnt to give myself to GOD, to man, and to self.I learnt it’s okay to transform in different forms.I learnt the beauty of choosing GOD... Continue Reading →
Her Splendid Thoughts 