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Be careful not to inherit the bad traits of your partner. In moments of frustration, resist the urge to mirror their flaws as a form of payback. Instead, be the exampleāthe change you want to see. Growth in a relationship comes not from matching negativity, but from leading with patience, grace, and integrity. Itās easy
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Being told repeatedly about something good that was done for you doesnāt make it any less significant. Let go of the spirit of entitlement or the discomfort of being reminded of someoneās kindness. They are allowed to sing it all they want. When GOD reminds you of a single act, it doesnāt mean HE hasnāt
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What is marriage to you? Is it just about you, your husband, and your children? Do you realize that it also includes everything your spouse isāand that means their family too? Many people struggle with this idea, but I believe itās an important one. I grew up watching my mom and her sisters-in-law become the
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You know that feeling when something is really stressing you out, but the next person just canāt relate? Itās frustrating. Over time, Iāve learned that peopleās worries varyāeven when they stem from the same situation. Sometimes, the impact may be the same, but it hits at different times. I remember when my friend, Mo, and
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I recently came across a message I sent to my family group. I felt it might be beneficial to someone else as well. So, enjoy the read. How are we today? You would agree with me that it is easy to develop a habit but difficult to break one. Every day, we wake up and
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A couple of days ago, I found myself sitting next to a distracted toddler in church. He was fidgety, his attention wandering everywhere but the mass. Fortunately, I had a drawing pad and a pen in my bag. I handed them to him, and his face instantly lit up with excitement. As he scribbled, his
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A while back, I shared my journey with jealousy and pride. Today, I want to talk about something transformative: celebrating someone elseās joy and how it changes the gameāfor you and those around you. As I mentioned before, pride and jealousy often get in the way. But once you address them head-on, your life will
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When I look at my mum, I am filled with gratitude. Often, during our chats or when Iām traveling, she looks at me and says, āYou are living the life I wanted. I prayed to GOD, and HE answered me through you.ā Those words mean everything to me. My mum loves to travel, and by
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Lately, I have found myself reflecting deeply on why I am in my current field of work and what drives me to do what I do. This introspection was sparked again at a training I attended and resurfaced when I had to confront a significant career decision head-on. Through these reflections, a consistent truth has
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Do you ever feel motivated to prove someone wrong? I know I do. Itās something that often lingers in my subconscious. In the eyes of many, I am very fortunate, and I wonāt deny itāGOD has been ever faithful to me. I grew up with the mindset that if I wanted something, I should go
Thoughts are sparked by my life experiences and learnings from others, but importantly the inspiration from GOD.
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