I was at an event recently when I noticed a young girl—probably around 11—gracefully strutting toward her mum. As I watched her, I could tell she was imitating someone she admired—maybe her mum, or someone else she looks up to. That simple moment took me right back to my own childhood. I was always a... Continue Reading →
Me before Them
I've often adjusted myself for others. Some may dispute this fact, and I acknowledge their right to do so. I am in a continuous process of learning that sacrificing my own needs doesn't guarantee the permanence of anyone or anything. I repeatedly observe that when I pause and take gradual, meaningful actions, things align. This... Continue Reading →
Ever Feel Lost or Uncertain About Life?
Today, I simply feel like screaming, crying, and steaming. Do you ever have those limbo moments when you don’t really know what’s affecting you? When you’re unsure of the right mood or reaction? Well, I get those moments sometimes, and lately, I’ve been in that space. Recently, I hit a low point. I just wasn’t... Continue Reading →
Don’t Become What You Dislike
Be careful not to inherit the bad traits of your partner. In moments of frustration, resist the urge to mirror their flaws as a form of payback. Instead, be the example—the change you want to see. Growth in a relationship comes not from matching negativity, but from leading with patience, grace, and integrity. It’s easy... Continue Reading →
When Reminders Become Revelations
Being told repeatedly about something good that was done for you doesn’t make it any less significant. Let go of the spirit of entitlement or the discomfort of being reminded of someone’s kindness. They are allowed to sing it all they want. When GOD reminds you of a single act, it doesn’t mean HE hasn’t... Continue Reading →
Marriage runs deeper than two!
What is marriage to you? Is it just about you, your husband, and your children? Do you realize that it also includes everything your spouse is—and that means their family too? Many people struggle with this idea, but I believe it’s an important one. I grew up watching my mom and her sisters-in-law become the... Continue Reading →
Her Splendid Thoughts 