I’ve been thinking…The view from a bus is different from a plane—and different still from someone who’s walking.Even if all three are heading in the same direction, what each person sees, feels, and experiences will be completely different. And yet, we often forget this when comparing lives. Just because someone else is on a similar... Continue Reading →
At what point is the attention seeking extreme?
Recently, while driving, I saw a group of boys standing by the roadside, all huddled around a phone. What caught my attention wasn’t the phone or the excitement—it was one boy with a bandaged hand. For a split second, I imagined what it would feel like to have my hand wrapped like his—and I immediately... Continue Reading →
When it’s time!
I was at an event recently when I noticed a young girl—probably around 11—gracefully strutting toward her mum. As I watched her, I could tell she was imitating someone she admired—maybe her mum, or someone else she looks up to. That simple moment took me right back to my own childhood. I was always a... Continue Reading →
Me before Them
I've often adjusted myself for others. Some may dispute this fact, and I acknowledge their right to do so. I am in a continuous process of learning that sacrificing my own needs doesn't guarantee the permanence of anyone or anything. I repeatedly observe that when I pause and take gradual, meaningful actions, things align. This... Continue Reading →
Ever Feel Lost or Uncertain About Life?
Today, I simply feel like screaming, crying, and steaming. Do you ever have those limbo moments when you don’t really know what’s affecting you? When you’re unsure of the right mood or reaction? Well, I get those moments sometimes, and lately, I’ve been in that space. Recently, I hit a low point. I just wasn’t... Continue Reading →
Don’t Become What You Dislike
Be careful not to inherit the bad traits of your partner. In moments of frustration, resist the urge to mirror their flaws as a form of payback. Instead, be the example—the change you want to see. Growth in a relationship comes not from matching negativity, but from leading with patience, grace, and integrity. It’s easy... Continue Reading →
Her Splendid Thoughts 